Public Speaking Tips - Captivate Your Audience From Word One

noreply • Apr 06, 2020

I've often declined the opportunity to speak in front of a number of people as I've been so petrified that people won't want to listen to me and will think I'm talking a load of nonsense - worse still I'd dry up and get sweaty armpits and look a fool!

And yet, people are always telling me they think I'd make a great speaker! So this year, I've decided to feel the fear and do it anyway. This next year is my year for saying 'yes' to opportunities. Big gulp! So, as part of my own self-growth I've been learning how to prepare and develop the self-confidence I need to be able to make it as an in-demand public speaker!

When he mentioned how to open a presentation, he suggested that you first thank the person who hired you to speak and then tell the audience something like, "It's a pleasure to be here with you today." All I could think was, "Wow!"
To me, this is not a captivating opening. I think of it as a lackluster one at best. It doesn't immediately grab the audience, which is what you want to do. Why? Because it sets you apart from the average speaker from word one.
Think about it. When you read a magazine article, it leads off with an attention-getting headline. There isn't a "pre-headline" where the author writes how pleased they are to be able to your the article. What would you have thought if, when you read this, it began with, "It's a pleasure to write this for you."?
When you go to a play, the actors don't preempt their opening lines by thanking the producer and telling the audience that it's a pleasure to perform for them. They simply get to it.
The best movies - at least as far as I'm concerned - immediately begin with a scene that draws you in, as opposed to those that make you sit through a minute or two of the production company's logo displayed across the screen, followed by the names of the executive producers, director and numerous others.
As for speaking, here are some of the ways you could open a presentation, depending on your audience, your purpose, and the occasion.
Question (rhetorical or otherwise)  If you are speaking about SEO, you might start with, "How often do you feel stressed because, no matter how hard you try, you just can't get your page to rank on the first page?
Story  Tell a story that immediately gets your audience engrossed in your presentation.
Startling statement or statistic  Deliver a statement or statistic that startles people is the perfect way to get your audience to sit up and take notice.
Contrarian opinion  Open with a statement that your audience agrees with and then grab their attention by contradicting it. Depending on the audience, this can be risky.
Quotation  Get people thinking. A thought-provoking quote can do that. You can find quotes on just about any subject at brainyquote.com or other resources.
Take them back in time  Transporting them to another time instantly gets the audience members' minds engaged as they picture that scene. Begin with, "Let me take you back to... " or "Come back with me to... "
Vision  Have people picture possibilities, an outcome, or the future, and you have them right there with you. Start with, "Imagine... "
Things not to say include:
  • "Thank you" for the introduction.
  • "I'd like to thank... "
  • "It's a pleasure to be here."
  • "I'm not good at this."
  • "I didn't practice."
  • "I'm nervous."
  • "I need to apologize for... "
  • "Today, I'd like to talk about... "
And one more thing - jokes are usually not a good idea. Humor is powerful, but planned jokes that require a strong set-up, a well-delivered punch line, and precise timing are difficult for most of us to tell well.
My advice to you is to determine what kind of opening works best for you. No matter what it is, you are going to be better served - and more important your listeners are going to better served - when you immediately grabbing their attention.
I believe that everyone should be able to share with others their knowledge and experience. Unfortunately, most don't know how to effectively and consistently accomplish this.  
So, if you want to get more confident and develop the skills to grab an audience's attention, visit  https://PeterGeorgePublicSpeakin g.com 
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